Ms. Smockity , a mother of seven children who home schools her children, often offers wonderful bits of wisdom (laced with humor) on her blog. Her past two blog entries contain great suggestions about love and respect in marriage. She first mentions a book with the title "Love and Respect" that sounds interesting. I could still learn more about love and respect--even after 42 years of marriage. Next Ms. Smockity says that she has learned a lot during her 24 years of marriage and shares a list of 12 things she has learned NOT to do to her husband. Her writing is humorous but her points contain a great deal of wisdom for maintaining a good marriage.